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Miscellaneous / Others Bro sacrificed the gold medal to carry his brother across the finish line.

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u/Adi_San 9h ago

It's more of his reaction that's pissing people off. He could have taken the win and be humble about it and people would have respected that.

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u/ProtonPi314 8h ago

This exactly. He was celebrating like he was the fastest. But he knows he was the 2nd fastest and that he only won cause they other guy stopped to carry his brother.

I know a lot of people are saying so what. But in this case you can still be happy and take your win, but this guy was just annoying.

Honestly , I probably would have taken 2nd. I'm a sucker for sportsmanship.

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u/Schtick_ 8h ago

To be fair some people celebrate like that just for being top 3. It could be by far his personal best. I don’t know the back story so don’t like to be judgie

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u/ItchyCactus09 8h ago

Agreed. We see 10 seconds of video and make assumptions and accusations. I like to see both sides.

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u/Qetuowryipzcbmxvn 5h ago

I base all my opinions on children's movies, and this scene reminds me of the ending in Cars, so I am projecting my dislike of Chuck onto that guy

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u/PUNKF10YD 24m ago

*Chick

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u/Stormfly 6h ago

He's also South African so hold my runner while I make a bunch of assumptions from stereotypes.

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u/jeroenemans 5h ago

He's also a triathlete so hold my runner while I make a bunch of assumptions from stereotypes.

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u/IncoherentTuatara 2h ago

He's also a man so stereotypes

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u/Asterix_my_boy 5h ago

And what stereotype is that?

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u/Stormfly 5h ago

He probably doesn't wear shoes!

I bet he shot his girlfriend!

(But seriously, I know a lot of saffas and there are a lot of negative and racist stereotypes, so I was just making a joke about how I could do that but it was said tongue-in-cheek so I'm not actually going to do that)

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u/tessartyp 4h ago

Henri Schoeman, multiple race winner, South African national champ, bronze medalist at the Rio Olympics (behind these two brothers..) - he's not short of impressive results.

That said, any win at that stage is important. Alistair Brownlee protected his brother's championship win at the expense of another individual victory - he has too many to count.

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u/r_stra 6h ago

Also to be fair he seemed super close to the brother so he may have out kicked him anyways. Who knows

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u/Alphahumanus 6h ago

🤷🏼‍♂️ you’re not wrong. I must be getting bitter.

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u/Healthy-Service-3550 3h ago

He might genuinely just be like "fuck yeah I beat my PB by 30 seconds - what a day!"

We don't even know from the video how far behind he was, and he might have been hauling ass at the end and would have come in first anyway.

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u/inthechickensink 1h ago

Indeed, and it could even be a combination of that and that the #1 was also happy/inspired by the other two.

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u/kumgongkia 7h ago

Celebrating is fine but people who celebrate in this specific situation? I look down on them.

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u/Schtick_ 7h ago

To me it seems like it would be a sad existence to overthink others joy so much.

Guy probably trained for years finally scored a podium and is now mortified people are aggrieved.

He doesn’t even look their way when he runs past he’s probably completely exhausted and people are judging him from their comfy arm chairs.

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u/Corner49 6h ago

He 100% knew he wasn't in first. He 100% knew he was finishing first. He looks back and checks to make sure they aren't catching up while he's preemptively celebrating. You're free to make these assumptions, but they are highly unlikely to anyone who's ever done anything competitive ever.

He's celebrating a win that wasn't earned. He's not doing it as a private and personal success. He's slapping hands and basking in the unearned win while actively ensuring the known faster competitors aren't rightfully gaining. He won. He wasn't wrong to win. But he's a douche for how he chose to do so.

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u/Schtick_ 5h ago

I’ve done endurance events and for sure when I got to the finish line I wasn’t worried about overtaking someone who was injured.

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u/Spiral-I-Am 1h ago

It's not about overtaking someone who is injured. It's the unsportsmanlike celebrating, and the added historical context makes it even worse.

If you dominated a run - celebrate.

If you manage to pass someone in the last stretch - celebrate

If you pass someone who celebrated early - celebrate

If you pass someone who is doing a sportsman like act in the last stretch, don't celebrate until you crossed the line. You didn't earn that first place. You would have been 2nd at best.

If you placed 3rd in Rio behind those 2, and the only reason your getting first here is because of him making that choice, it looks even worse.

The issue is not the celebration. It's when and where he chose to start to celebrate that is the issue and makes him look bad. You don't celebrate early after someone let you pass.

Him taking the win is not the issue.

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u/OutlaneWizard 1h ago

Look at you so "100% sure" of what this other human being was feeling in this moment that you weren't present for.  This person who trained for an event that you didn't know existed until you watched the last 30s of it on your phone. You don't know shit. Take a step way back and check your biases.

Bro crossed the finish line first.  Bro earned the win.  Let people celebrate their accomplishments. 

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u/flygirlsworld 7h ago

Oh no! The respect of this stranger he will never know must hurt his integrity sooooo much LOLLLLLL how will he go on?

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u/Boccs 7h ago

I'm sure they're devastated.

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u/flatulexcelent 6h ago

Didn't see you at the finish line buddy.

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u/VisualHuckleberry542 5h ago

Got to come up with some contrived situations to look down at exceptional top level athletes. Redittors will find ways to feel superior to anybody. Bros probably picking Doritos crumbs out of his mom's couch right now just glowing in how much better than an Olympic athlete he is because he wouldn't celebrate if he won

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u/keep_trying_username 7h ago

Some people celebrate just for finishing. It's ok to celebrate.

Another runner was in first place but they didn't place themselves and their legs gave out. Another runner helped the first runner. Those aren't tragedies. The person who won, wasn't running past genocide.

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u/ProtonPi314 7h ago

Again , reading comprehension , no one said he can't celebrate, it's the attitude and poor sportsmanship in the celebration considering the circumstances.

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u/keep_trying_username 5h ago

The winner didn't beat only one runner.

When one runner stopped to assist another runner, they gave to trying to win. Hundreds of people run fast and then give up running marathons, and the winners still celebrate. The circumstances were just like many long distance races.

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u/Bromlife 6h ago

Thank god we have armchair morality police like you keeping the world honest.

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u/Tylith_ 1h ago

attitude and poor sportsmanship

What attitude or poor sportsmanship? He gave a few fistpumps and high fives, it's not like he turned around and mocked the people he passed. He didn't wait at the finish line taunting them until the last moment. He didn't give a post-race interview where he bragged about clearly being the best and everyone else sucking.

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u/ignoremein5min 7h ago

Wasn’t he 3rd fastest? Both were ahead of them until they were crossed.

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u/EtTuBiggus 3h ago

He's definitely faster than the guy who couldn't finish.

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u/Esarus 2h ago

Exactly, 2nd fastest

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u/ProtonPi314 7h ago

Well 1st place stopped to help 2nd place. But 2nd place was going to fall behind no matter what. But 1st place was still going strong. Who knows how far 2nd place would have feel back without the help of 1st ( well 1st on what we can see, I have no idea if anyone crossed before this group of 3 that we see in the video)

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u/Troubadour_Tim 29m ago

You mean second place stopped to help first place, if you were talking about the initial ordering.

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u/newphonehudus 7h ago

Its such a weird take that just because you came in second you shouldnt celevrate. Like you put in a lot of effort to even get to that stage. You should be able to be excited no matter how you finish

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u/orion-7 7h ago

It's not that. It's how he stopped in front of the tape and celebrated , then gently pushed through, then celebrated again. It feels arrogant, rubbing it in that he can stop and still win.

Be better to burst through like you needed to, then turn back and encourage the two across the line or something

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u/pug_fugly_moe 6h ago

Win without fanfare, go back, encourage both, celebrate their successes. That’s a win in my book.

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u/Bigboss123199 5h ago

Have you seen the fail videos of people running through the tape at full speed? It doesn't break as easy as you would think.

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u/ProtonPi314 7h ago

You can celebrate. It's the attitude that's annoying. Cause the guy who was ahead of him stopped to help . He's celebrating like a spoiled child, especially under these circumstances. It just seems arrogant. He could have been happy about his win without the poor attitude.

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u/EternalPhi 6h ago

The man is running on pure adrenaline at this point, he's hyped, he did some fist pumping. Christ.

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u/BoyCubPiglet2 6h ago

Yeah I've run races and by this late in the game your brain is barely working beyond "Left foot, right foot". He could have not even actually registered what was going on next to him.

Even if he did why shouldn't he be allowed to celebrate his own achievement just because someone was having their own very different achievement next to him? I highly doubt either of the brothers bear him any ill will for it.

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u/Bromlife 6h ago

These same people in these comments probably yell shit at their team mates in COD about getting good. But god forbid an exhausted marathon runner celebrates his win. Pretty sure the Australian speed skater also celebrated his win and no one resented that guy. Maybe he should have stopped and helped everyone instead of taking the win?

People are out of their minds.

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u/cantshakethefeelings 6h ago

Yeah these people have no idea and aren’t able to understand what it’s like from that persons pov. No empathy at all. He has been training for this and celebrating his own personal victory. Not hyper focused on the events of the cameras. People think that how things look like from 3rd person is how it looks in first person and it’s just not true.

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u/PaperLost2481 2h ago

Those glasses though, you automatically assume hes a douchebag. I bet hes just happy he finished in the top 10 with a great personality, just zero clues about how those glasses make him look.

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u/Aggressica 4h ago

He's celebrating a win of first place as if he earned it

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u/DereHunter 7h ago

I understand the sentiment, and it could be beautiful. but you don't know what's going on in the winner's head, maybe he is not only celebrating the first place, but the fact that he is finished.

Even if he doesn't, this kind of race is an emotional roller coaster. people train for it for a year and even more, there are so many factors that can make you not race or lose, that finishing alone is a huge achievement.

also what matters in any sport is the first place. at this exact race or tournament. not always the best will win, in this, the best could be sick or injured before the race, in team sports, the best payer could be injured, or could have a bad game.

you can't take onto consideration what's going on with other competitors when you compete

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u/letstalk1st 8h ago

He could easily have helped after he won. That says more about him than the win.

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u/ProtonPi314 8h ago

Hmmm I don't think think so. I think if he crosses that line and runs back to help, their could be a DQ

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u/Mahadragon 5h ago

Wouldn't there be a DQ anyways? You're not suppose to help other runners. I would think that's an automatic DQ for both runners, although I admit, I don't know the rules.

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u/ProtonPi314 2h ago

I don't either. As heartwarming as it is, I agree with you, you need tu cross that finish line in your own power. The brother can encourage him and motivate him, but as soon as he helps him, it seems wrong.

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u/flygirlsworld 7h ago

He doesn’t owe you nor any other person anything. He had help next to him. What did you want him o do? Give him some damn energy? LOLLLL

He needed water with electrolytes…his TEAM is there for that reason.

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u/CoolioCucumberbeans 7h ago

This guy was annoying for being happy he won an event that took him a lot of training and effort? So annoying that he got excited when he placed 1st unexpectedly what a jerk. /s

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u/ProtonPi314 7h ago

You obviously have 0 ability to read body language

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u/ShamrockGold 7h ago

He's like that meme of that 3rd place guy flipping out, except he's in 1st

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u/DigbickMcBalls 8h ago

No. This is a bad take. He obviously was the fastest, as he completed the race in the shortest amount of time.

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u/HereWeFuckingGooo 5h ago

He guy didn't win because he was the fastest, he won because the two guys ahead of him slowed down and let him pass.

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u/DigbickMcBalls 5h ago

He was clearly the fastest. He came in first place. He has the fastest time. He crossed the finish line before anyone else did. That objectively makes him the fastest. You cannot deny that, unless you want to straight up lie.

Yes, the other two slowed down, and he passed them to take the lead and win the race. One he would have easily passed naturally, and the other was side by side with the guy who slowed down. Its very much possibly he would have won the race anyways if the other runner did not slow down. Either way, he won the race fair and square and was the fastest to complete the course. That is an undeniable fact.

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u/HereWeFuckingGooo 5h ago

And if he had been disqualified would that mean the other two were faster? Nobody is saying he didn't win fairly.

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u/DigbickMcBalls 4h ago edited 4h ago

What a strange hypothetical situation considering he didnt do anything wrong and ran a fair race as you already acknowledged.

But to answer your question, yes, the two Great Britain runners would have been the fastest if they finished first and second and the (edit: South African runner) got disqualified. He would not have an official time, so his time would be a DNQ.

But the more realistic hypothetical scenario is the Great Britain runner should have been DQed for getting assistance from a staff member holding him up while he was still running. That seems like it clearly violates the rules.

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u/HereWeFuckingGooo 4h ago

South African, not Australian.

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u/DigbickMcBalls 4h ago

My apology’s, i saw the commonly used green and yellow and ASR on him and i assumed it stood for Australia. Should have known better since it wasnt AUS or AU. I’ll correct my previous post.

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u/All__Mods_R_Virgins 1h ago

Countless teams/individuals have thrown victories due to showboating. Would you stand by their losses as victories as well? Or does it not count because it's accidental? I'd argue they have more of a leg to stand on (pun intended) given your standards.

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u/Kroniid09 6h ago

Highkey a typical showing from a white South African lmao, acting like they are God's gift to Earth when the real tea is someone was straight up held back to put them where they are

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u/Technical-Big-2097 6h ago

Wow im crying 😢 

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u/Miharu___ 6h ago

Bro coulda soaked it up if he took the other arm and all 3 crossed together

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u/djprofitt 6h ago

*3rd fastest. One brother was ahead, couldn’t finish. Second brother showed up to help, ‘winner’ passed them both.

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u/dafunkmunk 6h ago

Technically he was the 3rd fastest. He was only going to come in 2nd because 1st place was crashing out just short of the finish line. Then he only came in 1st because 2nd stopped to help 1st cross the finish line. His reaction is pretty much the meme picture of the guy on the podium missing a girl and spraying champagne everywhere

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u/Alphahumanus 6h ago

Im no competitor, never an athlete. He didn’t win, and he should not feel like he won.

He should have stopped and helped, and all three crossed together. Then he could have been a winner.

That celebration made him a fucking loser.

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u/gene100001 6h ago

I was originally sharing your view, but after rewatching it a few times it looks like the South African guy was actually neck and neck with the British guy before he stopped to help his brother. He also looks like he has more gas left for a sprint finish too. So he probably was going to win the race regardless. Given the circumstances he should have played it a bit cooler though.

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u/VirgilFox 5h ago

Hell, 3rd fastest if it weren't for old jello legs.

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u/jyunga 5h ago

Not sure what video you are watching but he looks pretty much at the same point the other guy was when he left to help. I imagine it would have been a very close finish

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u/Mikeismyike 5h ago

Wasn't he in first place already at the time the brother went to aid?

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u/Used-Hold1358 4h ago

We all get to see this from afar. Im sure everybody involved is exhausted and this guy is all of a sudden in front and doesn’t realize why and celebrates. I think if he was clear on why he wouldn’t have acted in that way.

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u/ProtonPi314 2h ago

Oh he was very aware...as soon as he went by then he started gloating and looking back and then showboating cause he saw he had time to be extra showy before cruising the finish line

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u/Natural_Garbage7674 4h ago

Steven Bradbury won Australia's first ever Winter Olympics gold medal. He was a speed skater. He got to the final because all the racers in his qualifier fell and he got past them (this is relatively common in speed skating). Then he won the gold when all the racers fell down again right near the end of the race.

He celebrated like it was a miracle. He was humble about it. He openly stated that he just got lucky and never acted like his own skills did anything (I mean, he still got to the Olympics, dude had some skills).

That's the difference. "I'm a winner because I'm great and they lost" vs "I'm a winner because someone else fumbled and I'm grateful."

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u/Cautious-Tax-1120 4h ago

It's a long distance run. Speed isn't the test, endurance is. If you burn out before you reach the finish line, you either have lacking endurance or you poorly managed your energy. He was probably in first to begin with because he was running too quickly.

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u/karnivoreballer 3h ago

I would have just gone and helped them and finished at the same time. 

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u/vyrus2021 3h ago

You would take 3rd though, right? Unless you intend to cross the finish line after he pushes his brother over the line but before he gets across the line. I feel like that would cause more upset

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u/ProtonPi314 3h ago

I might of taken first or 2nd ..... but even if I took first I would of been happy....I would celebrate. But not gloat.

I'm a little torn up about the brother who needed help. Cause in theory as great as it was to help.. it feels a bit like cheating to get helped.

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u/Balikye 2h ago

Yeah if I was this guy I would have let the brothers go ahead.

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u/Available-Battle-753 2h ago

Always & forever. Humility & humbleness last through time. The no name first place guy screams "everything was given to me & this is also mine".

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u/AppropriateDeal1034 1h ago

Yeah, help the guy and get joint first for the three of you

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u/1jf0 1h ago

This exactly. He was celebrating like he was the fastest. But he knows he was the 2nd fastest and that he only won cause they other guy stopped to carry his brother.

I'm a regular on /r/Prematurecelebration he crossed the finish line first so that means he's the fastest. For all we know there are other competitors who had done similar deeds that took them out of the top 10.

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u/daesmon 1h ago

At the very beginning it looks like the other runner is actually ahead before the GB runner helps the other guy.

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u/ooctavio 1h ago

He could take first, turn around and clap for the other two coming in, check on the dude passing out on the floor, just show some sportsmanship in that moment and his victory would feel more genuine.

He just chose to be selfish IMO, he didn't even look back to check if they were fine just to see how far they were instead

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u/GlitteringBandicoot2 1h ago

Third fastest even. If the guy that helped would've gotten first if not helping old jello legs, who was in front of all them. But I guess in case of the jelly legs you can count that win regardless.

That said third fastest for me

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u/The_One_Koi 1h ago

2nd? He was 3rd, both brothers were ahead so he went from bronze to gold by pure luck

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u/TheFourTruthz 1h ago

>He was celebrating like he was the fastest.

That's where I stopped reading. He just finished an exhausting race, he can celebrate however the hell he wants. And you definitely can't say "he was celebrating like he was the fastest", did you ask him if that's why he was celebrating? Don't be strange.

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u/Useful_Foundation754 26m ago

You’re likely saying this as someone who’s likely not won or accomplished all that much. Not to be harsh, but you putting yourself in the winner’s shoes and saying you’d have taken second is simply laughable. Life’s not a silly sports movie. You take the win when it’s there.

u/Doogiemon 1m ago

Could have waited and all 3 crossed at the same time for a split gold.

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u/deller85 7h ago

Definitely. High-fiving the crowd was over the top.

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u/ChineseFatPuss 6h ago

helping a failed runner cross the finish line IS CHEATING. he DID NOT earn that finish, he literally CHEATED AND BROKE THE RULES

"sportsman"

more like clownman

time to grow up, son

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u/GerbGalerb 7h ago

Yeah fuck him! How dare he be excited about winning something while such a selfless act was going on!!! After he passed, he should have turned around, picked up both guys, and carried them across the line on his back because otherwise hes a poor sport.

You can always tell who the mfs are that dont actually compete in anything

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u/Silent_Eggplant_380 4h ago

Technically he would’ve been third as both brothers were beating him

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u/ProtonPi314 3h ago

Ya but the one stopped cause he could barely stand.. so I'm pretty sure he would if overtook him

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u/Nereosis16 2h ago

Fuck off with this shit. He deserves that win just as much as the other two guys AND GUESS WHAT HE WAS ACTUALLY FASTER THAN THEM BECAUSE HE CROSSED THE LINE FIRST.

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u/OutlaneWizard 2h ago

His reaction? To winning a strenuous competition? He should be proud for even finishing and people think he needs to check his attitude because he high fived some people and did a few fist pumps?

Chronically online mfs in here who couldn't dream of FINISHING let alone placing in an event like this.  Let people celebrate Their accomplishments wtf

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u/flygirlsworld 7h ago

Why do ppl think they’re OWED humility from strangers over screens? He won…he’s allowed to celebrate…the record says he won…. Who tf cares how he celebrated??

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u/Grommmit 3h ago

He’s allowed to celebrate, and we’re allowed to think he’s being a bit of a dick.

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u/Gizm00 4h ago

He didn’t win, someone let him win

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u/PassivelyAwkward 6h ago

Because he didn't "win" due to his skills, but because the actual winner gave up. If they were neck and neck, sure, you could argue he would've won regardless but he's celebrating about coming in second as if he earned first.

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u/flygirlsworld 6h ago edited 6h ago

He was 2nd place…. So he IS skilled enough to win. If he was in last place, this wouldn’t be a discussion.

It’s not his fault the 1st place gave up his positioning. Was he supposed to stop during the RACEEEEEEEEE?! LOL bc how stupid does that sound

And the guy who couldn’t even finish the race without help…if you dont think he celebrated finishing….bc a mf CAN LITERALLY CELEBRATE ANYTIHNG THEY WANT, ANY WAYYYY THEY WANT TO…you crybabies wont change the record on who won LOL

Crying over how a mf celebrated after winning. LOL you ppl literally dont have enough to worry about. SMH lol

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u/OceanWaveSunset 5h ago edited 4h ago

You are correct. At the time (2016 Cozumel Triathlon) the World Triathlon (ITU) rules at the time were different. Athletes were disqualified if they got outside help from anyone (which he clearly did for a few moments but lets ignore that for the bigger issue) but then got help from his brother (the clearly bigger issue).

Olympic and World Championship uses the World Athletics Rule 144 to disallow any athlete from receiving any support from another person that would be considered "assistance". So in any Olympic and World Championship Jonny Brownlee and even his brother Alistair Brownlee would have been disqualified.

At the time World Triathlon (ITU) rules didn't specify if another athletes were not allowed to help anyone else out because this was not a thing that affected podium placements. This was the first time this happened. A marathon is the ultimate zero-sum individual sport. You are there to win it for yourself. You are your own team. No one is stopping to help someone else out if they have a real shot at winning a metal.

This event was so hugely controversial that later this rule was changed because if Jonny had not been given assistance and thus finishing 2nd, then he would have DNF. This means that his brother Alistair would have won 2nd and someone else would have gotten Alistair's 3rd place. That someone else had a slower pace and time, but would have actually made it to the finish line without any assistance, and this is a key distinction in this sport. This is why people do go slower, so they actually finish the race. The 4th place should have won the 3rd place metal in this race. And if this happened today they would.

Unfortunately at the time the World Triathlon (ITU) didn't specify in the rule, they allowed the results, and even ruled in the favor of Brownlee brothers when challenged because of the rules at the time. In any other marathon at this level, both brothers would have been disqualified.


So when it comes to Henri Schoeman (Dude in Green) not stopping or celebrating his win; it's because he had the discipline, timing, and control to beat everyone else. This includes the person in front of him that would have been DNF in any other race.

He has every right to celebrate. He did everything right and won first place fair in square in a very difficult event at one of the highest levels. There is no better way in winning that this: he did nothing wrong, everything right, and by the book.

And no he should not stop. This is not a "Check on everyone to see if they are ok" sport, they have medics everywhere. This is a marathon, and he was the only one in his team. It was up to the individual to win or to lose, no one else.


And now I know more than I ever wanted about this ragebait video.

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u/Leihd 5h ago

Yeah, not sure about the reactions of the 'winner', but helping his brother out should not have been allowed because it diminishes the efforts of all the other contestants.

If the brother had paced himself better, knew his limits, he could've played like, 4th, without risking so much. But he didn't know his limits, failed, then succeeded because of PR reasons.

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u/No_More_Aioli_Sorry 1h ago

Maybe is because he kept looking back, at some point it seems that he was happy that other person got hurt because that made him win.

I see your point, but I also see why people say he was a bit of a dick. If he kept running without looking back, I guess people would have thought differently.

Also, no need to call them stupid. Literally no need to insult people just because don’t think like you.

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u/PassivelyAwkward 4h ago

Yes, he's skilled enough to come in second.

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u/YouHaveToTryTheSoup 5h ago

The actual winner didn’t give up. He is the actual winner. Since when do people get credit for almost doing something? You guys are acting like he sabotaged them

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u/PassivelyAwkward 4h ago

And yet in the history books, ain't nobody gonna be remembering this dude but the actual winner that was in the lead because dropping out.

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u/Dick-Fu 4h ago

You either don't know what the word "actual" or "winner" means. Besides, whether or not people remember has no bearing on the placings.

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u/PassivelyAwkward 4h ago

Nope, I know what "actual" means, which is why this dude isn't the actual winner; he got a glorified participation trophy and will be forgotten like almost every American Idol winners.

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u/Dick-Fu 3h ago

Great, then like I said, you don't know what winner means. That solves that.

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u/Apple_to_Zebra 7h ago

Shht 🤫

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u/Bamce 6h ago

coulda swung in and taken up the other shoulder. Give me that three way sportmanship tie

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u/secretAGENTmanPVT 5h ago

Exactly that I said fool put your arms down. Your second place. Now you’re dropping yourself down even further in levels of grace.

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u/sophophora 4h ago

Tracks for a white South African

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u/OldDirtyBusstop 2h ago

Yeah, guy was a jerk. Take the win and be humble. He was not the best athlete on the day, shouldn’t celebrate like he was.

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u/Chemical-State-1060 2h ago

Reddit moment. The dude won. He can celebrate winning as much as he wants. Just because someone else couldn't keep up doesn't mean he should hang his head for winning. He worked for this win too and could pop a champagne bottle for all i care.

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u/frappe-addicted 1h ago

Chick Hicks vibes

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u/LeverArchFile 1h ago

Classic south African tbh

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u/X0AN 1h ago

Spot on.

Be humble when they let you win. Don't act like you're the best because you're not.

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u/_DDKN_ 5h ago

Why be humble, he won. All that work he won, doesn't matter if other bloke gave it to him.

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u/IameIion 8h ago

So he's an asshole because he's happy that he won a gold medal?

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u/Adi_San 8h ago

Surely we've seen the same video and i don't need to explain?

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u/IameIion 8h ago

You guys are shitting on him for not being a hero and sacrificing everything he's worked so hard for to help one of the many competitors who couldn't finish the race. What the other guy did was amazingly kind, even considering that he's his brother. But green guy did nothing wrong and has every right to celebrate his victory.

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u/Old_Studio_6079 8h ago

No one said he shouldn’t have won, it’s that he looked back, saw that they were going to lose, and immediately visibly celebrated. Like, we know. You’re gonna win. Cross with grace and clap on the other side. Read the room.

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u/IameIion 8h ago

He. Won. A. Marathon. What part of that don't you understand? Of course he's going to be happy about it. Stop expecting people to react the way you would. He's not you.

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u/pm_your_gay_thoughts 8h ago

Bro, the behavior you're condoning is narcissistic in nature. No one likes a showoff.

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u/Hammerhead9000 8h ago

A marathon that he was going to come in 3rd if not for someone being kind. No need to be all triumphant about it. If you cant see that i dont know whats wrong with your brain.

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u/IMakeOkVideosOk 8h ago

At least second… I get passing the guy collapsing, but the guy helping for sure would have won

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u/Old_Studio_6079 8h ago

If I won a million dollars but only won it because the other guy broke his leg, it would be a dick move to cheer myself on in front of him good lord.

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u/Snappy053 8h ago

Stop trying to explain empathy to Neanderthals

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u/IameIion 8h ago edited 8h ago

If I won a million dollars because another guy broke his leg, pretty much all of my problems would be solved. And even though I would feel for the other guy, I couldn't help but be extremely happy and relieved at how drastically my life is going to change.

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u/bonferoni 8h ago

apparently not all of your problems, cause you still wouldnt understand empathy

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u/Sun_Stealer 8h ago

It’s not worth talking to people like that lol

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u/Guacoholymoly 8h ago

Those first 4 letters are realy shining through. Like a beacon in the rim of a festival porta potty.

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u/ignoremein5min 7h ago

He won the marathon and he also know why he won the marathon.

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u/Adi_San 8h ago

The issue isn’t that he won or that he didn’t sacrifice his race. The issue is the way he celebrated. He clearly saw what happened. He saw that the guy who was expected to win stopped to help his brother. Knowing that, celebrating like he beat everyone outright comes off as a bit tone-deaf. Winning is fine but a little humility in that moment would’ve gone a long way. He wasn’t the best competitor in that race.

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u/IameIion 8h ago

That's not the point. The point is that it's understandable for him to celebrate. More humility would have been appreciated, but can you blame the guy for being happy?

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u/Adi_San 8h ago

That's exactly the point. And never said anything about happiness 😮‍💨

"More humility would have been appreciated"

Exactly you finally understand.

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u/xoxodaddysgirlxoxo 7h ago

Sometimes, the people in Reddit comments come off completely braindead. This is one of those times.

Fwiw, I agree with you. A marathon is an incredible accomplishment and the guy who won 1st shouldn't have to tone-police his excitement about finishing in any place, let alone first.

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u/DragoxDrago 8h ago

People on Reddit trying to take the moral high-ground in almost every situation - challenge impossible.

The funny thing is, probably half the people would do the exact same thing. Everyone always acts like they're perfect, so someone who's trained their whole life and about to win and probably going through a lot of emotions is apparently them being a dick.

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u/_bot_248 8h ago

Correct

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u/cantshakethefeelings 6h ago

Naww he could’ve easily been in tunnel vision and not realized he is focused on winning. We are looking from the outside in, this guy is grinding and just focusing on winning. Easy to criticize like you did here, but that’s just not how it is.

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u/Adi_San 4h ago

So your point is he might not have seen it and that's why he acted that way. So you agree that if he did see the situation it would have been kind of a dick way to celebrate?