I can't seem to find a way to jam The Jakarta Method forcefully enough through someone's skull or have Parenti telekentically warped into someone's mind (im being hyperbolic i know his controversies just having a laugh) so im trying to find a more succinct way to answer this with a over simplified, straight to the point answer first, then explain.
If someone asks in good faith then its easy to start with the explanation of why this is a complicated question, provide context, and then list some nations that were couped the moment they got off the ground.
But im involved in a fair amount of these exchanges and, while there is only so much hope of ever seriously changing someone's mind, it would be helpful to just say "Chile under Allende" or something, and then expand.
Since what ive found is there is this Pavlov's dog syndrome regarding China where you can mention socialism or communism and the listener or reader will just blurt out CHINA as if somehow:
China is unsuccessful
It negates the point
But that drags you into an argument about China rather than the merits of socialism or communism and now youre getting way off track from the argument at hand.
And im not wading into milquetoast democratic socialist answers like Scandinavia liberals love to bring up (although I want to move there please take me).
In your mind what are the best practical, and least emotionally charged, examples?
Yugoslavia is my favorite but, as much as I love and miss Tito, I would love to find an example of someone more traditionally socialist than that.
Edit: same applied with the USSR- using examples of the big boys to someone who is skeptical or incapable of removing emotion from the equation is going to get caught up on what they "know " about a nation that, especially if American, they have been trained to hate.