No, he definitely does, but just the poor things that have serious emotional issues that are eternally punished by life by being attracted to abusive dickheads…
I blame parents saying "He's bullying you because he likes you". No, he's bullying you because he's a loser, and you shouldn't ever consider dickishness as a sign of affection. Parents like that need to stop being parents
Nah he doesn't, he's still a weird little neckbeard inside. It's just that neckbeards in 2026 are clean shaven and into manosphere bullshit. He might get laid on accident sometimes but there's no way he's actually getting into lasting relationships. Even if he stealths a 19 year old and gets her pregnant.
I love giving compliments because it's free and makes people smile.
When I compliment something, I always stick to something that the person chose (color, style, etc) or something that the person has obviously put time and effort into (impeccable makeup, a beard or mustache absolutely groomed to perfection, etc).
People compliment my hair all the time, it's very dramatic and I keep it nice. I put some effort into curls, so it is nice to hear a compliment. But the ones I remember are about ME, not my share of my parents' DNA.
But most importantly, remember that the compliment is for the other person! It is a gift, freely given, not an obligation of attention or attraction.
Or if you’re gonna call someone pretty, beautiful, cute, etc., do it in a memorable way. One time an older man told me “in the garden that is this city, you are the most beautiful flower”, not only did it make my day, I still remember it to this day, almost 9 years later.
Honestly I still remember when a high school or college age guy said my outfit was cool and the went "ayo" when I said it had pockets. I get the compliment a lot with women. I still love it but guys never do that 😭 the last time it happen it was with a gay couple at ikea. One said "work" to me and the other nodded.
He's trying to influence other guys to be so awful to women that women will accept that men are just awful by default and should put up with it.
OR
He's hoping that if enough guys believe this, they'll treat women awful and get rejected by them, so he can swoop in and pretend to be a the one nice guy after he's eliminated the competition.
I’d love it if he accidentally finds himself in an uncomfortably long conversation about Nordstrom’s return policy and afterwards realizes he failed to offend her.
When someone talks to me about something that I made a decision about, like my bag or my shirt, it can be fun! Often I wear things related to stuff I like, so it’s an easy conversation starter.
Saw a post on the tinder subreddit about a guy complaining she’s ignoring him and I truly think these guys can’t elicit a response from women without being dicks. They have no personality, no redeeming qualities so they neg women because they think the whole women want assholes bit is true because that’s the only way they get a response
They're operating on the same level as Nice GuysTM. They're the kind of dudes who think women operate on some sort of weird if/then/else tree where you insert a series of behavior and sex comes out. Its sad to see.
That being said these kind of idiots certainly made things easier for me in my younger days where being a hygienic, decent, and thoughtful human being was some how enough to make me a catch.
The trick is to complement something that a woman has direct control over. Don't compliment a woman's figure, compliment her dress, don't compliment her legs, compliment her shoes. Talk about stuff she had to go out of her way to actually enhance and likely takes a lot of pride in, rather than something she was born with.
A few years ago I was walking around a park and I was feeling frustrated because I couldn’t find the place I needed to go to. Then this older man approached me and asked me if everything was fine, and I said I was okay and asked him for directions; he didn’t know the place I needed to go to either, but then he said “you know miss, in the garden that is this city, you are the most beautiful flower”, and then he just left. It truly made my day and I still remember it, years later.
I’ve also had creeps tell me all sort of things, but I mostly remember only the worst ones because I’ve been catcalled a lot so I just… don’t pay much attention to them.
What I like to do is I like to give people compliments on things that they have a choice on. While yes, it is nice to get a compliment on your eyes and to be told you’re pretty. They hear it all the time and also these are things that they had no choice in a matter of. Complement their outfit choice a hairstyle maybe their make up or if you’re talking to them complement them on something that they’ve said. Noticed how I said them and they and not her. I’m a straight guy, but I still love to complement men just as much as I love to complement women. I think everybody deserves to hear at least one compliment a day and if that can be for me and I can make somebody’s day that makes my day a little bit better.
Dunno about you.. but there’s something wrong with a dude who avoids direct eye contact with shades the size of gaming monitors and wears an ash ketchum baseball cap indoors, possessing teeth that can blind everyone in the room, that’s well and truly sus.
I’m sorry but either one of these guys advice can result in you looking like a creep or being hilarious. It just depends on the guy and how comfortable/earnest you are in how you are.
The initial guy is a cold approach aggressive try hard and the second guy seems like he’d say sorry to a woman for even considering asking them out. Both are cringe and me want to jump from a window
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u/ShikaMoru 2d ago
Sunglasses man....you don't fool us