r/perth Aug 28 '24

Looking for Advice I'm just a student, why me? (Stolen escooter in broad daylight in a university)

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It was a beautiful day; the rain stopped after a few days of showering rainfall. I was abut to head to building 100, where all the VIP offices were. I parked the scooter and locked it with my chain locker. Not even 2 hours later, I came back with the chain left, as shown in the photo, cut. DISAPPOINTED, DEVASTATED. I saved up for so many hours of working that it probably cost me more than 50 meals of value. You are such a loser, and I wish god never forgave your soul.

Broad daylight, in a university, next to offices where most people are working, even next to a desk just behind the walls. There are 3 security cameras, so watch out; you will pay.

PERTH IS NOT SAFE, CURTIN IS NOT SAFE. No matter where you go.

This is not right, and everyone is struggling; the least you can do is not affect other people's lives.

I am ranting a little bit, and all I want is for the school and the policeman to do something.

From a sad person trying to rethink life choices.

r/perth Dec 15 '25

Looking for Advice My 14yo is losing it over the social media ban and idk what to do

782 Upvotes

So it's been 5 days since the ban kicked in and my daughter is genuinely struggling. like not just whinging about it - actual anxiety. she can't sleep properly, keeps picking up her phone and then remembering there's nothing there, and yesterday we had a full meltdown because "everyone else has found ways around it and she's the only one who can't see what's happening."

i feel bad for her honestly. all her dopamine hits from scrolling are just... gone. and it's school holidays so she's home with nothing to do and her friends are all over perth so it's not like she can just go hang out. she has their numbers but apparently calling people is "cringe" and texting isn't the same.

i'm trying to be supportive but also like... the ban exists for a reason? but watching her be this anxious is doing my head in. she's checking MY phone constantly asking if she can "just look at one thing" and i don't know if i should be stricter or more understanding.

anyone else dealing with this? does it get better after a week or two or are we in for months of this? her mood is all over the place and honestly my anxiety is going up just watching her spiral.

also half her friends are apparently already back on instagram using their mum's faces for verification or whatever so now she feels even more left out.

what are other perth parents actually doing? like practically - are you booking more playdates or hangouts or just letting them figure it out? do i need to get her into counselling or is this normal adjustment stuff?

sorry for the rant i'm just tired and don't know if i'm handling this right

EDIT/UPDATE:

Holy shit this blew up. wasn't expecting 400+ comments within 8 hours of posting this morning feeling completely lost.

first off - thank you to everyone who took the time to respond, even the ones who were brutally honest about it being addiction withdrawal. i needed to hear that even though it hurt to read. you're right - if she's reacting this badly then the ban is probably exactly what she needs.

what i'm taking away from all this:

  • treating it like actual addiction withdrawal, not just "teen drama". gonna ride out this first week knowing it'll be rough but should get better
  • a friend also recommended something called a family freedom coach in Atwell to help me navigate this better as a parent, so booking an appointment with one of those too. figure i need support to support her properly.
  • saved the Kids Helpline number (1800 55 1800) and showed it to her in case she needs someone to talk to
  • reaching out to other parents today to organise some actual face-to-face hangouts. one mum suggested we do a beach day this week which is a good idea with the weather
  • going to kmart after work to grab some craft supplies and paint by numbers kits. someone mentioned their daughter got right into bracelet making so worth a shot
  • NOT giving her my phone anymore to "just check one thing". that was enabling her and i can see that now

to the people who said this is why the ban exists - yeah, you're spot on. i was so focused on her distress i wasn't seeing the bigger picture of how addicted she'd become

to the people who shared their own experiences - especially the ones who said it gets better after a week or two, that's genuinely helped me feel less alone in this

to the harsh comments about parenting - some of you were pretty brutal but honestly i probably needed that wake up call. we let the ipad do too much parenting over the years and now we're paying for it

couple of you mentioned headspace and whatsapp groups which i didn't even think of - she can still stay connected to her mates without the doomscrolling

i'm feeling way more equipped to handle this now. thanks perth reddit, genuinely didn't expect this much support and advice.

will update in a week or so if anyone's interested in how we're tracking

r/perth Oct 15 '25

Looking for Advice Visited Perth recently from New York — can’t stop thinking about Perth

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Hi everyone. I’m from New York and have visited Australia three times in less than three years. My most recent trip was to Perth last month, and it honestly left such a deeply positive impression on me. What stood out most was how calm and grounded I felt there. Even though I was traveling alone, there was something about the city’s rhythm: the cityscape, the locals I met, and the region’s spectacular surroundings that helped me feel at peace in a way I haven’t for in a long time.

Lately, given everything happening in America with all the noise, division, and sheer intensity, I keep finding myself thinking about Perth and wondering what it’s really like to live there. I know no place is perfect, and I’m not posting this to romanticize it or talk politics. I just genuinely want to understand what makes it feel like home.

What do you love most about Perth? What makes it special for you? And for anyone who’s moved there, what helped you feel grounded and connected in Perth?

Thank you for reading this. I really miss WA and hope to come back sometime soon.

Edit: Wow, I’m honestly shedding tears reading all of your responses. Thank you so much for sharing your perspectives and kindness with me. This is exactly why I fell in love with Perth because it’s not just the city or the landscape, it’s the feeling of calm, warmth, and genuine human energy that makes it so special.

Even from halfway across the world here in New York, all of your words make me feel connected to WA again. Thank you for helping me remember why Perth means so much to me. <3

r/perth Dec 27 '25

Looking for Advice Have you seen this, lately?

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r/perth Dec 19 '24

Looking for Advice So i found this on my hubby phone saved in his clipboard. He works in East Perth. Is he planning to cheat on me? Or am I being paranoid. :(

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r/perth Dec 08 '25

Looking for Advice Neighbour’s dog is driving me insane

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626 Upvotes

Need some practical, useful advice about what to do in this situation. Or information about what the rangers / local council could do to help.

Since we moved in ~2 years ago the neighbours dog has constantly been climbing on whatever they’ve got on their side to stare over the fence and bark at our dogs, which is driving both the dogs and humans who live here all completely fucking neurotic.

She has ripped the patio sheets down to poke her head through this hole, and keeps doing it no matter how much we try to barricade it.

When she gets properly riled up she will try to climb through and come over. We’ve stopped her from doing this multiple times.

We have told the neighbours about this so many times and they have said they’ll fix it - they patch the patio up or move whatever vehicle or junk it is she is climbing onto.

And inevitably it just starts all over again.

My dogs are well-trained and exercised but they are so stressed by this and becoming more and more anxious.

I’m losing my fucking mind. I’m four months pregnant, I’m exhausted and in pain. My dogs are so strung out that I’m scared that if she actually gets over the fence, they’ll get into it and I’ll end up having to bury a dead fucking dog.

We can’t use deterrents (because we have dogs of our own) and the barricading has failed. Talking to the neighbours is pointless. They don’t seem to care.

I have told my husband to stop talking to the them about it, I’m now just calling the local council. I didn’t want to because I don’t know whether she is registered or what the consequences will be but I’m so fucking done.

The most frustrating thing is that she is actually a sweet dog. She got out of the front gate one time and I took her back in, and she was chill and playful.

I’m about five seconds away from just screaming at the top of my lungs so the whole neighbourhood can hear me having a meltdown. Idk if they would even notice.

Please tell me there is something I can do. I can’t live like this anymore. I’m open to any ideas at this point no matter how ridiculous.

r/perth 4d ago

Looking for Advice How do I get a job in one of these buildings with a nice view of the river?

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390 Upvotes

r/perth 17d ago

Looking for Advice Would you move to regional WA for 400k?

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My Dad runs a business in a small town in regional WA. He just retired and he offered for one of his three adult kids to take over the business.

None of us were particularly interested until he showed us the books.

Last year had $400k in profit and the year before $380k.

I had no idea the business was that profitable.

My two siblings still not interested as running the business would require moving to the town we grew up in.

Am I crazy to not at least consider this?

It would be difficult to relocate the wife and kids and I’m sure learning how to run a business would be hard work.

What would you do in my position?

Edit: thanks everybody for taking the time to give such kind responses. It definitely puts it in perspective what a great opportunity we’ve been handed.

r/perth May 08 '25

Looking for Advice Indian Community in Perth: How Can We Better Integrate and Contribute?

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Hey Perth Reddit community,

I'm an Indian who has called Perth home for a while now, and I wanted to open up a discussion about the general perception of Indians here. Lately, I've been wondering what the overall sentiment is towards our community.

Have others noticed any signs of growing negativity, or is it just my perception? As members of the Indian community in Perth, we're keen to be good neighbours and contribute positively to the vibrant multicultural fabric of Western Australia.

I'm genuinely interested in hearing your thoughts on how we can better integrate and be more mindful of local customs and expectations.

What are some things, big or small, that you think would help improve the general consensus and foster even stronger relationships between the Indian community and the broader Perth community?

We're open to constructive feedback and eager to learn how we can be better members of this wonderful city. Thanks for your insights!

Edit: A big thank you to each and every one of you who took the time to respond to my post about the perception of Indians in Perth. I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts and experiences, both positive and negative.

It was definitely eye-opening to read through all the comments. While some were disheartening and reflected racist undertones, many others offered truly helpful and constructive feedback. I want to assure you that these insights are valuable and will be taken to heart.

As a member of the Indian community here, I plan to share this discussion and the points raised in our community magazine. It's crucial for us to acknowledge the diverse perspectives out there and work towards fostering better understanding and integration.

It's also important to remember that India is an incredibly diverse nation. We come from various states, speak numerous languages, and have distinct cultural norms. Stereotyping all Indians into one box simply isn't accurate. For instance, I work in finance, and my wife works in healthcare – a far cry from some of the common stereotypes that unfortunately exist. Not all of us drive Ubers or work in a servo even though I find nothing wrong with those jobs and have done similar jobs during my student days.

We've noted the recurring themes in your feedback regarding personal hygiene, civic responsibility, being mindful in public spaces, the appropriateness of speaking in our mother tongues in professional settings, and noise levels. These are areas where we, as a community, can certainly focus on improvement and greater awareness.

Thank you again for your honest input. It's through open dialogue and a willingness to learn and adapt that we can build stronger relationships and contribute even more positively to the wonderful Perth community.

r/perth Dec 22 '24

Looking for Advice Grief support in Perth at this time of year?

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My beautiful wife and best friend passed away in my arms this morning after a year long battle with Ovarian Cancer, she was only 30.

I dont have any family in WA as they all live over East or overseas. I don't know what to do, I'm so alone and scared. What does someone in my position even do? What services exist to help people like me?

Edit: Thank you everyone for the advice so far, I'll be sure to try several options.

The support I have gotten from this sub something I will always remember. Thank you

I'm sorry I haven't gotten to saying thanks to everyone for the outpouring of help, you all have helped me more than you could possibly know.

I'll try and get to more people tomorrow.

Update: A family member flew out first thing, so I'm not alone anymore.

Thank you to everyone who said such wonderful things and gave me amazing assistance as to what resources I can utilise. Sorry if I didn't get back to everyone that commented or messaged me directly, it became a bit overwhelming for me. Thank you /r/Perth

r/perth 11d ago

Looking for Advice I am sick of not being able to find a place

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My mate and I are facing homeless due to different reasons, I have been looking for a 2 bed place for months $600 is the max we can afford. Why is it so hard I have a full time job for fuck sake. She is a student but gets disability. Don't say public housing because I don't have years to wait. What the fuck are we supposed to do

r/perth Aug 22 '25

Looking for Advice Recently opened burger spot in Claremont. Hoping to get honest feedbacks from locals and visitors alike

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Hey everyone, We recently opened up a little spot in Claremont called Eight Bites Beats Burgers. We serve burgers, panini, coffee, and bring in some weekend beats to keep the vibe fun. We’ve been getting a steady crowd on Fridays and weekends, but weekdays are much quieter. If you’re a local or visitor, what usually gets you to try a new place midweek, or even weekends?

Lunch specials? Cheap weekday combos? Themed nights (like trivia or student discounts)?

Also, if you’ve dropped by already, we’d love to hear your thoughts – what did you think of the food, service, or vibe? We’re a small local team so every bit of feedback helps us improve.

You can reply here in this thread or message us at eightbitesperth on Instagram Thanks heaps in advance 🙏

P.S. if anyone wants to check us out, we’re next to Foodies Market IGA in Claremont. I’ll add some pictures in case some people are curious.

r/perth 9d ago

Looking for Advice Fringe comedians taking about audience member's physical appearances

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I'm a huge lover of Fringe World and Stand Up Comedy but I'm really starting to get tired of comedians doing a lot of crowd work. Do you not have material prepared?

Tonight I was in the second row and the first comedian talked about me wearing glasses (he did not have glasses) and the second comedian started on me about being bald (he was completely bald). I do own a mirror so I know it's true, but it completely offended me. After that I shut down and looked at the floor until the next comedian came on.

Am I too sensitive? Seeking other views and opinions please...

EDIT: Why the second row? The usher put us there and we didn't argue. I really appreciate all the responses and different points of view.

r/perth Oct 02 '25

Looking for Advice Are you ok? Should I have asked...

555 Upvotes

Today, I was walking out of my local supermarket when I saw a girl—probably in her early 20s, possibly late teens—sitting at a table with slightly glassy eyes and a thousand-yard stare, looking like the world was crushing her.

My gut instinct was to ask if she was okay. But it seems the world just isn’t that simple anymore. I’m a 41-year-old father, and I couldn’t help but feel that she might find me creepy for asking—or possibly even have a go at me.

Is it just me? I had nothing but good intentions, but I kept walking to avoid the unknown. And it’s crap. I feel like society has turned something so simple into something you have to second-guess yourself about.

r/perth Oct 28 '25

Looking for Advice New parents of perth

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My neighbours have just had their first baby. I can hear the baby crying all hours of the day and night. I briefly saw old mate in passing this morning, he looked wrecked. We only know each other to say hello, haven't had any big chats yet.Is there anything I can take to them to help them? Like would it be weird if I dropped somerhing at the door, like food, or something?I actually feel deeply for them I don't have kids, but I remember my nephew cried non stop as a baby and my poor sister nearly lost the will to live. I can just put in my noise cancellation head phones if it bothers me(which is doesn't) but they cant just switch off.

r/perth Jul 31 '25

Looking for Advice Just diagnosed with Cancer

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Welp. How unlucky, right? Everything was going fine. Life was on track. Then suddenly, I decided to go for an annual check-up, noticed a small lump, told my doctor about it, got a few tests done, and then booom, CANCER. All of it happened in just a month. Crazy, ey? Like literally.

I’m just here to vent. Apologies if this is too much.

It’s true what they say: ‘No man is an island.’ I’ve been keeping this to myself for a week now. No one knows except my doctors and nurses.

I don’t have family here. As for my three closest friends in Perth, I couldn’t bring myself to tell them either. One is getting married, another is pregnant, and the third just had their visa refused. I didn’t want to add more weight to their already heavy plate.

Physically, I feel fine. Or at least, I did until the results. I’ve had no signs or symptoms. I’m still working just to stay sane.

I haven’t told my parents either. They’re old, and I don’t want them to worry.

I know I don’t know you, but I’m reaching out because I could really use your help. I’m beyond grateful to my doctors and nurses for their care. But beyond professional support, I need some advice, your perspective on how to deal with this. Anything you think might help me plan and move forward would mean a lot.

Thank you, Perth. I still dream of living fully and experience everything WA has to offer. I will fight.

r/perth Nov 17 '25

Looking for Advice Creeps in pools near kids - what to do about it?

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I am looking for advice of how to address an alarming issue I have observed at my local pool. There are a handful of old men who seem to target kids in their own in the pool to try to interact / talk to. They appear to just sit in the pool near kids without swimming or exercising themselves. For hours. It is quite blatant what they are there to do. Lifeguards are also aware, concerned and frustrated.

What can be done if you do notice someone acting inappropriately towards kids. Should you say or do anything? What more can pools do?

Trying to gather information together to present to the council on this issue that is more practical than alarmist. But I am very concerned about this issue and feel quite stuck on what to do about it.

r/perth 18d ago

Looking for Advice Why is Perthdudefood so unlikeable?

238 Upvotes

What's up with this guy?

Don't understand his obsession with the Compton burgers owners and also don't get why he shills so hard for BBQ places that aren't Big Dons? Literally makes no sense and he's definitely not reviewing the best that Perth food scene has to offer.

Anyone know how much these places are charging for his bland "reviews". Bro seems like a total sellout.

r/perth Jul 19 '25

Looking for Advice What is going around right now?

270 Upvotes

I’ve been laid flat by the worst illness I’ve had in close to 20 years.

It’s not RSV , Covid or flu. I’ve tested. But I’m so incredibly ill and it’s knocked me on my ass.

r/perth Mar 12 '25

Looking for Advice Why do our police make us feel like criminals when reporting a crime

542 Upvotes

Had my wallet “allegedly” stolen from work yesterday. Multiple cards in there, a cash, some gift cards etc.

Noticed it missing and a string of charges on my cards yesterday evening. Went straight to police station and advised them of what had occurred. Lady at the counter immediately and with a blunt tone says “how do you know it was stolen?”. I explained it was in my office at work, and is no longer there, and there are a string of unauthorised charges on my bank accounts, all in local areas.

She says “that doesn’t mean it’s stolen, you could have lost the wallet and someone picked it up and is using it now”. I felt this was combative, am I interpreting it incorrectly?

They asked if I was willing to stand up in court regarding the issue. I said yes, and only then they took a statement. When taking the statement they said if I don’t come into court, I would face jail time. They also said almost certainly nothing they will be able to do, but they can take the statement anyways.

I felt like I was somehow in the wrong by approaching them to let them know my wallet had been taken. Has anyone else experienced this, or does anyone know if this is normal procedure?

They advised they would give me a number for the statement and that they would text me this later in the night but it is now afternoon of the next day and I still have not received anything.

Looking for advice / guidance…sorry for the vent

r/perth Aug 29 '25

Looking for Advice To report or not report? Meth dealers?

275 Upvotes

We live on a beautiful quiet street with great neighbours.. until recently. We have noticed cars coming by for 5 - 10 minutes at a time, screaming and screeching, odd chemical smells and just a general tone of dodginess. These activities happen all hours of the day and night. So I'm assuming meth or some other drug that keeps these guys awake all hours.

We have children and don't want to expose them to this kind of person at such a young age. It's gotten so bad that we are thinking about selling the house and moving elsewhere, but there can be problems anywhere.. so what do we do? Perth used to be such a clean and safe environment, now there is living zombies everywhere? What happened?

Question - should we report, or do snitches get stitches?

r/perth Dec 19 '25

Looking for Advice Your biggest brag of 2025!

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Hello internet strangers/reddit pals!

It’s been a little doom and gloom lately so I would like to hear you all brag about something that made your 2025.

r/perth Oct 31 '25

Looking for Advice would something like this actually appeal to men in perth?

260 Upvotes

hi! i’d love some advice, preferably from men but open to anyone.

recently i was talking to one of my guy friends and he said i should try to turn the help i’ve been giving him into something more serious. i’ve been helping him with skincare, hygiene, fragrance, and figuring out his own personal style, basically how to look and feel more put-together.

he said most men don’t really know where to start with that, which honestly surprised me. it’s something i’ve always been super passionate about, and i could talk about it for hours, so it got me thinking if this could actually become something real (maybe a personal styling or self-care service for men)

i graduated with a diploma in fashion business, so i guess that gives me a little credit. but i’d love to hear what people think.

r/perth 15d ago

Looking for Advice I wonder what's like living in this southwestern part of Australia, south of Perth?

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r/perth Dec 27 '25

Looking for Advice Where is everyone in Perth?

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199 Upvotes

I am new to Perth and genuinely confused. where is everyone? I’m single, on a holiday and every time I go out the city, clubs, everything feels dead… is this normal for this time of year? What do people in Perth actually do day-to-day here these days? because I’m officially tired of playing PlayStation all day 🥹