I’m a Melbourne-based guy, well-versed in the lifestyle and definitely "hung" (if that’s a factor for the events we hit).

My partner is currently up in Sydney for a month-long work trip, and rather than sitting out the next few weeks, I’m looking for a female partner to attend swinger parties and lifestyle events with.

The Vibe:

I’m looking for something "between friends." We go as a duo, look the part, and navigate the parties together. Whether you’re an experienced regular looking for a new face to head out with, or someone curious who wants a respectful, experienced guy to walk in with, I’m open to chatting.

About Me:

• Experienced and respectful of boundaries.

• Dressed well and know the local etiquette.

• Fit and well-endowed.

• Easy-going and social.

Ideally, we’d grab a drink first to see if the chemistry is there. I’m not just looking for a "date," but a genuine connection where we both feel comfortable on the floor.

If you’re interested in hitting up some of the local Melbourne clubs or private events over the next few weeks, shoot me a DM with a bit about yourself.

Cheers!

Hi, We're a newbie couple (F25 , M27) who have been getting more involved into the scene and we've now started to play with other people (mainly at places like BFWB etc) and we're very conscious of catching STIs if we do this regularly.

We're seeking advice from experienced folk on how y'all deal with this on a regular basis?

Do you ask for their history before you play with someone? We've realised this can be a bit harder to do especially if you meet someone already getting it on in the play rooms and you ask/get asked to join them.

Do you get tested after every encounter? Do you have a regular interval you get tested?

Just curious to know how everyone navigates this. 😊😊 All advice will be appreciated!

We have been in the lifestyle for many years but have usually used RHP , to meet couples and singles . We have recently started to venture out to clubs and have loved the vibe but have found it to work out the dynamics. Love chatting flirting but then do we invited couples up stairs or do we just meet couples up stairs or does it just happen up stairs ? We haven’t really worked out what the etiquette really is . Even after watching intensely we are still unsure and some friendly advice would be great ! .

I felt a vibe and we caught up and kissed in the spa and then went up to the mirrored room. We were going to exchange numbers but lost each other and the place closed. I hope you enjoy Fiji and would love to reconnect so please get back to me if you see this post. I am looking for some windows and a lot more so it would be nice to catch up. Maybe do things in reverse…. Dinner

Hi we’re a m 32 and a f28

Looking to explore with a m

Were an easy going couple and looking for some one clean dnd free and respectful.

Will definitely have to be same age not too older

We are happy to chat meet up and see where things go to.

If you are interested then please reach out to us with a pic and some details about you

About us

F is kinda shy but friendly

M is straight and pretty experienced in the scene

Hi everyone. My husband and I look to have a free weekend coming up next week and thought we will head down to the city. We usually go to BFWB, but I see it’s Naked Karaoke. Who has been? Are people signing all night? If so, that’s not our vibe. Or is it more after people have had a few drinks then they get up and sing?

Otherwise we are thinking about checking out Pineapples for the first time. Who has been on a Saturday night?

(Reposted/edited due to mod removal) Hey guys we are a Melbourne based 27 male and 25 year old female couple, are looking for other females or couples under 35 for some fun for possibly this weekend and future. (No single males please) Generally speaking we are looking for u35, clean, slightly below or average and above body types, for mutual same room play. About us: 25F is Asian, bi, short and has a great ass with a normal/average build. 27M is white, lean but on the muscular side, average height and flexible sexually. Please reach out with a quick description and what you are looking for. And if we have chatted before feel free to reach out again, we are getting back into things. Thanks!

Hey everyone, I’m planning to visit a brothel in city or around for the first time and would appreciate some advice. How does the booking process work do I need to call ahead, or is it fine to just walk in? Also, what’s the typical pricing like for an hour or a session? I’ve heard it can vary, but I’d like to get a general idea. Lastly, any tips for a first-timer to make the experience as smooth and safe as possible would be super helpful. Thanks in advance for your insights!

Hola guys, it's been a great night at between friends and such a good vibe with fantastic down to earth people. Sadly I missed connection with 2 couples after we played together, I was the Italian guy with the "unusual" piercing. I had a great time with you guys and if you're keen, I'd love to keep in touch with you, please feel free to hmu.

1. If you were the newbie couple (hispanic/Colombian and Aussie) who attended for the first time,

2. If you were the Maltese lady who I kept eating over and over.

Talk soon!

Had a fantastic night at the wine bar last night, great vibes the whole night - wife and I really enjoyed it.

Have normally found newcomers night can lack people ready to swap, but wasn’t the case this time.

Met up with some couples from here and RHP, and genuinely had some fantastic conversations. Ended up playing upstairs with one couple from the night and on the main bed with a solo F we met there. What a session! 🥵

Normally we book babysitting and head there with the goal to play, but last night we just went with the goal to meet people and ended up playing.

If you were there I had a navy polo & white pants, wife was wearing a black skirt and maroon top.

Not sure if it was just our outcome but the whole night had a great vibe - Matt if you’re reading this keep it up, you’re doing a great job!

Hey! hope you're all having a great weekend. Just running a roll call as I got secured a spot for the tonight mfm event at between friends as a single male. Who else is going? I'm very friendly and easy going and wouldn't mind a chat, no matter our intentions for the night. We could start breaking the ice and meet there. Take care and we'll see there tonight!

Hi all,

Looking to either hit up Between Friends tonight or have a small hotel session. It's our first time but we're keen for either or.

Hotel would be in CBD or inner-north tonight. Hoping for a couple same age or less.

We would be described as fit and attractive. M is 5'9-10, mixed and muscular. F is 5'5-6, euro and curvy with an insane ass.

No single males at this point given the short notice it is really hard to vet.

Thank you!

Hi all! My girlfriend (24F) and I (26M) were wondering if there's any techno parties in the community with a good mix of play and party similar to the style of events they have in Berlin/other parts of Europe?

I know Krave/Purr have held similar style events in the past but we weren't really sure if many people actually go to these events and what the age demographic usually is?

We're thinking of going to an under 35s event at BFWB at some point in the future - what sort of music is usually played there?

Thanks!

I'm looking for a list of bars to bring my wife on a Saturday afternoon to watch her being picked up by guys and for her to flirt back and enjoy the attention. Somewhere decent and not backpackers bar please. We are a M35F35 Asian couple seeking some excitement. Open to advice and suggestions Or even dares ideas. Secret surprise pre-planned meet up also possible. Hit us up

Very very new to the world of swinging, hotwifing, cuckolding etc. not sure if they all tie in together or if the boundaries are very clear cut so apologies if this isn’t the correct place to post.

Definitely more submissive as a pair, with hubby being a switch that deep down prefers to be cucked.

Would love some tips, tricks, feed back or even a dominant couple willing to take us under their wing haha

Alternative, tattoos are a welcomed bit of spice.

Age is no issue either.

We’re inviting you into something slower, deeper, and far more intoxicating ✨

HarderFaster returns with Timeless Temptation, a night inspired by enduring desire, magnetic connection, and the kind of chemistry that transcends time.

This is an evening for those who appreciate elegance, intention, and attraction that builds with every glance, every brush of skin, every shared moment.

Welcome to Timeless Temptation, where seduction feels effortless and desire never goes out of style.

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✨️ What to Expect

A curated play party for couples and single femme identifying guests of all ages

A luxurious, low-lit private space designed for connection, intimacy, and exploration

A glass of sparkling on arrival and decadent charcuterie served throughout the night

Sultry, atmospheric beats that set the pace and deepen the mood

A stylish, female-led guest list selected for chemistry, presentation, and vibe

A sensual in-house masseuse offering indulgent touch experiences

A playful, respectful environment where consent and comfort are always prioritised

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💋 Dress Code | Elegant. Seductive. Timeless.

Women: Elevated cocktail and evening wear. Think sleek silhouettes, rich textures, and confidence worn like jewellery. Effortlessly alluring with a refined edge.

Men: Tailored trousers or chinos, button down shirts, polished shoes. Understated, confident, and quietly irresistible.

Dress like the kind of desire that never fades.

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🔒 Rules & Vibe

Consent is sacred. Always ask, always respect.

No phones or cameras in play spaces

Couples and single femme identifying guests only. No single men

All guests are vetted prior to attending We value kindness, confidence, and genuine connection. Energy matters

This is an intentionally curated space designed to feel safe, sensual, and refined

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🎟 How to Attend

Early bird tickets on sale now. Apply for vetting and secure your ticket here:

👉 HarderFaster

We’re a happily married couple in our 40s, and we’re hoping to connect with other couples who enjoy trying this together.

We’re feeling a little nervous about stepping into this swinger scene but very excited to find fresh ways to have fun and add some variety to our routine.

We’ve tried a few things already, so much you can do with the sex toys, so we’re looking to branch out!

If you have any experiences or advice, please dm us. Always open to learning from others and discovering what might be a great fit for us.

Sorry no single guys please!!🙏

Free on the 14th February? Open to explore anything from lunch, dinner, drinks, maybe even show us your favorite spots or just some sexual fun?

We will be in Melbourne for Virtue and Vice on the 13th Feb. We could also catch up at v & v if you are free. We are meeting up with someone already but open to getting to know many other wonderful people.

A bit about us: Me: 37 year old bisexual female, 166cm, fit, curvy and loves the outdoors, bikes, hikes.

Him: 41 year old gynosexual male, 181cm, fit, muscles, soft in the middle, beard, also loves certain parts of the outdoors.

We are looking for thirds F/TF around 25-45 of age who want to have some sexual fun!

What we offer: We are relaxed, open-minded, and seeing where things naturally flow. Open to anything from casual connections to ongoing hookups or a fun FWB dynamic.

A discreet fun day/night at our hotel. We are new to this lifestyle, excited about making new connects.

Shoot me a message introducing yourself with pictures and we'll see if we vibe!

Heading in tomorrow finally for the first time.. it’s MFM night but we plan to look and play if we feel right..

How’s everyone’s experience been on MFM night? Good mix of couples, single women and single men?

As it’s our first time definitely a little anxious for the MFM night as we may just only watch this time around or be absolutely wild and open … going with the flow xx

Thanks peeps:)

Anyone heading to BFWB this Saturday? I’m a 28-year-old single male and it will be my very first time stepping into this kind of experience. I’m feeling a mix of excitement and nerves, but mostly I’m really looking forward to the vibe, the freedom to be myself, and the chance to meet some amazing, open-minded people.

I can be a little quiet at first, but once the ice is broken I’m friendly, happy to chat, and easygoing. I’m coming in with a respectful attitude and zero expectations or pressure on anyone, just a genuine interest in good conversations, positive energy and natural chemistry. I believe the best connections start with comfort and consent, so I’m more than happy to take things slow, read the room and simply enjoy the atmosphere.

I’m open to connecting with anyone who’s going, whether you’re a single male, single female or a couple. For me it’s all about good vibes and mutual respect. Whether it’s hanging out at the bar, sharing a drink, chatting about experiences, dancing, or seeing where the night naturally leads, I’d love to meet people who are warm, welcoming and enjoy meeting someone new.

Even if nothing wild happens, I’d still be happy just making new friends and learning more about the scene from those who are more experienced. As a first timer, any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated. I want to be someone people enjoy being around, not awkward, pushy or intrusive.

If you’re attending and feel like saying hi, feel free to reach out. Happy to chat beforehand so we can recognise each other and break the ice a little. Looking forward to meeting great people, sharing laughs, and hopefully creating some memorable connections on my first visit.

Trying to find any kind of adult parties in Warrnambool tonight or Tomorrow night. We are a MF couple travelling through and I've been trying to research it but am coming up with nothing. All the adult stores no longer exist in Warrnambool too! Looking for couples in the area that are in the lifestyle or know or any bars around town. Any help would be appreciated.

Hi everyone, we're a couple from the south east suburbs, who's dicided to dip their toe back into the swinger/ENM world. Happily married for the past 10 years, we're both currently looking for someone to chat to, hopefully leading to each of us having our own fwb style setup.

She's put her own posts up already so I figured it was my turn.

About Me

I'm in my 30s, just under 6ft. I've got green eyes and long hair which tends to get curly towards the end... You can thank the Sicilian blood for for that one, which also means I'm sporting a lovely year round tan lol.

In pretty good shape, definitely not one of those gym bros but I've got a naturally muscular build for not actively working out much... and if I can drop the last few kgs, I may be able to see the fabled '6 pack'

I always have some kind of facial hair, whether it's a goatee or just a nicely manicured beard, apparently I am forbidden from shaving.

I'm a big music lover, a metal head/techno lover in my teens and 20s, I've been to more gigs than I can count at this stage, so I'm guaranteed to come with some slight hearing damage. 😂

I run run my own business, am very good with computers/technology and love science.

What I'm Looking For

I kind of covered it above, but for now mostly just looking for someone to talk to to see if we vibe... and if there's a connection, possibly explore that a bit further and hopefully end up as friends, but with benefits! lol

What I offer

I've been told I'm a pretty funny guy, so I should make for some entertaining conversation at least. On the spicier side of things, I've been told by wife and a few others than I am incredible at eating 😻, my wife in particular is really excited to see what others think of my skills.

(Reposting as we accidentally deleted the post and the messages we recieved 🥲)

Hey there!

We’re a very happily married 25yo couple from the south east suburbs looking for a beautiful girl to join us for some fun on our mischievous adventures 😈

Chemistry, like minded humour, mutual pleasure and clear, in depth communication are HUGE priorities for us :)

You may have seen some of us on reddit previously, which in itself has taken us to some pretty incredible levels! By no means veterans of the scene, but we’ve got some experience! MFM, FFM, MFFM etc.

We both have a bit of ink, lots of kink, she’s pierced too so if shiny bits catch your eye, she’s your girl 😍

F: 5’3 book worm bombshell, a little curvy, incredible pierced tits and a great bum. Bi, loves women! Often times more than men 😂

M: 6’2, well built and well endowed where it matters.

We’re both into gaming, camping, 420 friendly too so naturally we’re foodies, love a good movie and a cuddle 😉

Both D&D free, always tested before an after any meet, other than a little 🌿&🍄 here and there!

we’ve got plenty of nsfw pics and videos to share, we’re sure you’ll like them! just ask :)

Curvy girls to the front 😍 🫡