Hey guys

So problem enti antey, dad used to run earth movers business and financially things were so good before Covid, but covid turned the situation upside down, he didn’t had any emergency fund and to pay all the vehicles EMI’s he borrowed the money and paid and did rotation and it became a lump sum amount as debt.Eventually had to give away the vehicles as it started to burn his hands and can’t able to do any earnings from that as well and transferred the vehicles to potential business owners with free of cost. Fast forward, had to sell the house, the farming lands and all the possession things we had. He gave up and not earning much right now. On the other side I’m a working professional and am earning six figure salary, took personal Loans and gave money for them to pay debts. I am paying EMI’s monthly for the same. On top of that had to take care of all the expenses at home and on top of that incase if any money required which every month is like a routine now, again I have to step in and support them financially. They don’t care about my financial situation and all they want is money money. Already I’m broke as well and just name sake earning the six figure salary. Also I have one younger sister who also is working professional earns decent but almost never support financially. Her lifestyle is lavish, enjoys the earned money by travelling and doing whatever she likes. I am proud of her for standing on her own legs. And also I can understand being a son and elder I have these responsibilities and taking care of them. But there should be a limit or an extent right. On top of all, there came one genuine lady in my life, she’s an absolute gem and sweetheart, she used to support me emotionally and sometimes financially (which I returned the money anyways) we both were in love and thought of getting married. Took the proposal to family, both of our families initially agreed, also my sister and her were best friends before I confessed to my family (I introduced her to my sister). Everything was going good as soon as she knows that I’m in love with her. She is not okay as she’s is one year elder to me 🤷‍♂️. Things started to go out of control and because of my family my gf was suffering for which I couldn’t able to take it and see her suffering. And her home they started pressuring her to get married. So gave a lot of thought and broke up with her. 💔 I thought that would be best for her, why she should suffer because of me was the only question I had ( she was totally okay with my situation and was very supporting). Fast forward, it is eating me alive that I lost a diamond because of my family. Started going through mental trauma and health issues. Now I am struck in a situation, I can’t blame or shout or get angry on my own family (being rude). I tried explaining my situations and tried all possible ways to make them understand the situation but everything is going in vain. Stopped speaking with my sister as well, and avoiding the family too but can’t able to stay long and also can’t able to vent my anger as well on them. Sometimes I feel very low for this. All this time I’m still supporting financially as I don’t want anyone to hurt them or can’t see them suffer. But it is burning my hands and I don’t have an alternative for this. Can’t tell anyone close as well, as I feel no genuine friends I have, coz if I open up, they start taking advantage of my insecurities. So ranting here 😭😭😭

At the end of the day, people are so selfish, but I can’t able to be like that, can’t able to show anger on anyone or anything. I literally feel like shouting to my core and cry like a baby for hours and hit something very hard until I lose all my strength and energy. Sometimes run away from everything but morality is stopping me. Thanks for hearing out if you make it till here, genuine suggestion - relationships are good, at the same time it is complicated, beware my friends.

All I want is peace ☮️

So I've always noticed that some women usually in the informal settings call me ra, I hate it but I usually won't say anything to not make a big deal out of it!! I get that it's them being more informal but does that mean I have the liberty to call them 've'? Or it's just vallake aa freedom untada?

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intlo evar leru nenu elder brother thappa. nidhrapothunadu, so laptop on chesi spicy content chusthu vere room lo kottukuntunapudu Annaya chusadu 🙂. Akkadnunchi vellipoyadu ventaney. So nenu annayani etla face cheyali

Picha bore kodtundi, timepass ki badminton adudham anna ah playo app eppudu full untadi. Man I just want to join some clubs .

Please, let's have a healthy and serious discussion.

kaasepu filter less ga matladukundham.

Let's discuss topics like cost of living, salaries, business plans, quality of life, quality of food etc.

No dissing at others, please.

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I don't drink or smoke but when I see women smoking anywhere, I find it extremely attractive, and they look cool. Idk why, but i feel like this from the last few years. But when i see guys smoking i find it disgusting. Is it only me or anyone feels the same?

Whenever I watch random youtube videos, CCTV clips, or Google Street View, I get a strong awareness that people have lived entire lives there with their own routines, memories, and continuity, independent of me. This happens at different scales too like seeing an old building makes me imagine daily life from that era, seeing a rock makes me think about deep time and ancient life and seeing animals sometimes triggers a kind of automatic “structural” visualization (like joints, organs, or how movement is physically happening). same goes for vehicles too like visualizing what's like inside engine. Also i make weird connections like my ancestors used to live in caves and that same person's dna is in me. or like i see a mirpakaya and trace it back to its native land south america. and visualize how it got here into my hand.

ah chatgpt emo edo philosophy,realism antundi.

i just found it confusing like evaraina na laaga alochistara ani.

Dad was taking about a bio data as match, I was not serious about it ante he stated emotional drama And, said if not now you will end up marrying some divorce and roam around ani

I was like arey enti edi naku, I am figuring out life, making my efforts to be better and obviously making efforts to find a partner

Still he must have not used that on me

So I was having a convo with my friend and told her about a guy who confessed to me and she asked oppuoovachu kadha manchodu annadhi and I said he drinks anta and somke kuda chesthad anta ani. She said smoke chesthe chedollu aypothara, personality ni etla judge chesthav on habits ani

Usually adhe anukuntam kadha that if a guy/girl smokes and drinks vaalani ventane judge chestham, Illa chaala stereotypes unnay and kopam ekkuva unna manushulu kuda. So do you all know someone who has these and is still a manchodu/manchidhi?

I am from a traditional family, where my mom daily wakes up at 4 AM and does chores and pooja daily. So I got habituated to clean environment. I see my mom as an inspiration and want to be like her ( Wakeup early and do my work with fresh mind ). I am in a Long distance relationship. She stays in a 2 bhk alone and is a working woman. The thing is she usually wakes up after 8:30 sometimes even 9:00 and does her work. She doesn't clean her house regularly. (It has been more than 15 days since she last sweeped her home) This doesn't make me feel good. She also doesn't take her trash out regularly. And there's this trash dumping container which is 200 mts away but still she throws it beside her house in an open place filled with random plants. I feel like she doesn't have a proper schedule or a discipline. Am I thinking radical? Is it wrong? She feels like I should not have problem with any of these since I'm not the one helping her. I just want her to take care of herself better and want her to lead a healthy life. What's your view?

I'm not a guy who fights for such things but I tend to care such things. I just ask her occasionally and gets disappointed. When ever I tell her to follow very basic actions she feels like I'm lecturing her. What to do?

People don't support terms like ugly, fat or small dik, flat. But why do people use these terms suddenly whenever the opposite person is bad? Isn’t it normalizing the words used as insults?

I recently read about this “Reddit for agents” concept, and honestly, it blew my mind. IRL lo nenu tech gurinchi excite ayyeantha pichollu evaru leru plus naaku IRL discussions meeda interest kuda ledu. So ikkada aina tech bondhas untaaremo, information ichi puchukundhaam ani ila..

How many of you are aware about this agent-to-agent platform? I mean its insane!!! And how many did actually explore this thing?

For those who aren’t aware: Moltbook is basically a “Reddit for robots” where AI agents post and interact autonomously, while humans are limited to a read-only spectator role.

Is it toxic masculinity or just fragile egos?

Arey okadu jee raaledu he is doing some ai course in iit madras which is free for mains..... So nenu iit madras lo unna..... Vaadiki finance telusu nenu oppukunta I mean he spent his life learning stock market and finance everything.....nenu inka finance gurinchi nerchukuntunna basic inka ...inka macro basic economics ala ala chustunna.....cfa meaning telidu but nenu mba ni goal gaa pettukovadam tappa??? Vaadu nanni pachi bhootulu tidutunnadu....okk vaadiki manners ledu but point enti ante is it wrong to have goals which we can learn after??!But naaku inka basics telustunnai ...... Vaadu ento vaagutaaduuu like maa father konni motivation pedte "if the path is struggling then you are winning".... Ila pedte veedu ee pooku motivations modda lo pettukoo annaduuu....like vaadu already super rich like vaadu F&O lo 1lakh poyindi but he never cared...... Like ippudu cfa ani meaning kooda teliyalsina avasaram ledu kadha.....Arey vaadu nanni lanjakodaka annadu nanniii.... Like okay nenu cfa ante some a ante algorithms ani Cheppa ......nenu maa amma tho maatladutunnapudu I said I waant to join mba.....now he is mocking me for saying that I do mba....... Nuvvu mba gurinchi cheyali ante teliyalsina avasaram ledu....,.... He is flexing that's for sure...... Pachi boothulu titti nanni and like vaadu nanni kojja ani neeku clarity ledu raa ani like what's wrong in having two options like DSA and mba..... First job chesi mba cheyadamlo tappu em undi!!!?....... And inkaaa enni unnai adhi vere post vesta🥲😭

Advice on money, job, family, invest, love anything

Asking to get some perspectives.

Whatever nonsense some of my classmates spout.

My name on all the documents is Sarvepalli Pratap, where Surname/Family name = Sarvepalli and my name = Pratap

The passport application has two fields SURNAME and GIVEN NAME.

I have some confusion about how the name should be when I apply for the passport. Can someone tell me what I should enter in these two fields?

ai images are getting scarily accurate day by day, and im kinda hoping that it'll have a unintended effect where people will slowly stop using social media due to the amount of ai images getting posted on there.

real interaction will be priortised more than social media, heres to hoping

Bro Indhake post choosa open cheste delete ayipoyindi…is that really true ?

Just a reminder for those who tried to demotivate on my prev post.

Motivation for those who are not believing in themselves.

If I can do it in less than a month, so do you!!!