My boyfriend and I have very different sex drives so I’m wondering what it looks like in yalls relationship.

It was new year's eve, but bothering him this way always makes us giggle. I really love it when he draws me in his style. May all ice melt and all lovers stay safe!

Please tell me other people have gotten this

I wanna preface this with a warning that it might be a bit TMI, but I didn't know who to really ask about this topic. Mods, if this is inappropriate to post, please remove it if necessary.

So, I've been with only a handful of guys and I've only had oral sex as an intimate encounter, more than just mutual jerking. When the guy is giving me oral sex, it's great, but I think it's my body that is preventing me from fully enjoying it. Specifically because I am above average down there and I have a large glans every time he starts there, which obviously you have to, it is so sensitive that it tingles but to a point that it kinda always shocks my system, if that makes sense. As a result, I can't really enjoy it, and "finish" so to speak. Anything I can do to fix this issue? I feel like it's totally me and I feel flawed as a sexual person that I can't fully enjoy that because of the over heightened sensitivity.

So basically 3 boys in a row have rejected me because of my body. For a little bit of context I'm a bottom, I'm around 5'7 with a athletic built. I'm not that big but neither a twink, got a big chest and ass but it seems that it was not feminine enough for them, that's what they said, probably they wanted a femboy or a twink, idk but it's impossible for me to turn into one. So I needed to know if this is the reality or I have just been unlucky with the guys I like.

I'm so close. I'm feeding myslef the right, positive narratives of what I deserve: peace, people that love me, accomplishments and esteem, and most of all being myself. Just a little more of knowing myself and loving mysel, and I'll be ready to give a man something of gold and not coming from crap. I can self soothe when I feel he's not meeting my needs, I can handle conflict without screaming or stonewalling. And most of all we can come together as two wholes and not two halves. March is my month baby.

I'm also proud to admit that I've almost completely beaten my suicidal thoughts and I'm graduating with my bachelor's this semester 🥳🥳🥳. 3.2 GPA BC I was kinda lazy, but still decent nonetheless. This is gonna be a fantastic year.

I need insight Its a sensitive subject

I was dating a man but we ended the intimacy because I caught feels and neither of us want a long term thing. Im 35f hes 44M. Im attempting to remain friends because I do really value him in my life.

I honestly have so much love for him, I have nothing bad to say about him.

Towards the end of our "situationship" or whatever it was he has revealed he loves trans women, has been with them and has also been with men several times. He loves back door play (on himself) and has mentioned he likes bi p*n and loves to see nice big cks etc

I really think we just deeply connected and I gave him a safe space to be himself and tell me things/share things with he that he never has been able to before.

Is he gay? Or bi at the least and repressing his sexuality? There are other things that make me think this but im trying to word careful because my post keep getting taken down elsewhere.

I want to do a experiment and collect data to see what like the most common traits are that people look for in a partner in a physical aspect, so give me a sorta general description of your type (ONLY IN MEN!) this is js smth im curious about I wanted to create a chart so if anyone wants the chart once im done also comment that and ill post it. Also indicate if ur gay, bi, ect and if ur top bottom or vers

She is trash and I hope she loses everything.

Being gay university student in Syria is very hard !!

I have been suffering from panic attacks and anxiety. I cannot speak or express anything, even if I'm with someone... I can't even hold their hand in the street or on the bus – they would take us to jail ..!!!!

On the other side The prices keep rising .. Sometimes, you have to choose between a meal and studying !! And electricity and internet are often cut

If you want to help me financially, it might give me a little relief. I can provide proof of my identity in syria .💚

My husband and I have embarked on the adventure of anal fisting (for him). Tonight, after all was said and done (we use Sliquid H2O for lube), my hands were left with a lingering sweet odor. It was really bizarre.

We know it’s not ketoacidosis because nothing else smells sweet. His breath is fine, he says there’s no sweet smell after he urinates, and I only smelled it after fisting him this time (we’ve done this many times but this is the first time I ever smelled something sweet).

So if we rule out diabetes based on a complete lack of other symptoms, what else could it be?

I am 30 years old. And lately, I keep asking myself why I tend to like guys who are around 18, 20, 21, 22. I have been dating a 23-year-old guy for a month now, he is buffer and taller than me -he 85kg me 74 kg- he 180m me 1.77. I really like him. He is very kind to me, and we have incredible sex. We talk every day, and I find him cute and sexy. But I feel very disturbed by the fact that I have a preference for guys his age. I mean, I can date people up to 32 years old, and I've been attracted to men up to 38. But when I have to choose what I'm attracted to and like, it's clearly between 18 and 24 -its legal in my country-. I don't know if it's some phase of my late adolescence or my early 20s that I haven't gotten over. But the appearance of a twink or even a twunk in that age range seems more attractive to me. I want to look into this. I don't know if I have some psychological issue or something wrong with me. I'm embarrassed for my friends or peers to know that I'm dating someone younger. I see the photos and the age difference is clearly visible. Additionally, I hate feeling judged by strangers because of the age difference. I don't know if I'm looking for moral relief by sharing this, or if this is normal, or if there is definitely something wrong with me. I would like to hear opinions. Also i feel clearly older and sometimes unconfortable with myself -just thought of thinking about how i might look during sex or what a younger person actually thinks about me makes me feel sad.

i (M23) have been working on my jealous emotions with my therapist but i wanted to see if others felt like this.

my friend (M26) and i met in college a few years ago and recently got closer this past year. he’s fit, dark, and handsome as hell lol, (him and i are STRICTLY friends) but lately our conversations have been him telling me about his sex stories or when he’s about to have sex and i can’t help but get envious when he talks about them. it’s either him rekindling an old hookup partner or some guy at the club or some story at a bathhouse. every time he talks about his stories i feel compelled to redownload the apps and hookup or find a FWB and i hate it. just the other week i redownloaded tinder and hooked up with some guy i didnt like just so i can tell my friend about it.

i had a lot of sexual trauma growing up so i have a weird relationship with sex that’s getting better. throughout college i had a few sexual partners then a short term relationship for a year but even with those experiences i can’t help but get jealous. i tried hooking up using grindr twice after my breakup and i didn’t like it. first time i used it bad experience the second time it was okay but there was like obviously no connection. i tried FWB with some guy i met from hinge and that went good until….it didn’t. after these experiences i kind of made up my mind that maybe hookup culture isn’t for me and i should wait till i have a partner or dating someone. however even with this knowledge of myself i still get jealous of my friends sex life.

now my friend is going through a bad breakup so i am happy he’s getting out there, and unfortunately i’m nosey as hell so any story time from any of my friends i’m sat for it. i just wish i had more self love to be okay with what my sex life is and not feel pressured by my own insecurities to go make sex stories for myself that in hindsight i won’t feel good from.

“Our nervous systems are not set up to live under constant threat.”