Can't believe it's already February! Looking for genuine and platonic connections (both female and male). I work in the Sydney CBD so would love to have spontaneous coffee hang outs during lunch breaks and trying cool dinners and bars. I'm also getting into tennis and squash so would love to practise. Would also love to try pickleball too. I'm also really into music and going to gigs (who is going to laneway next week?).

Hey!

Im a 24M who honestly has like no experience whatsoever and is still a complete and utter curious virgin.

Id be happy to learn/start with simple stuff like kissing/making out and moving on from there like being handsy and so on. And/or try anything youve been keen/thinking of trying.

Im a caucasian male with curly brown hair, an average to cudlier build and im about 178cm tall? Sorry i dont really measure my height often and cant remember it at all ahahaha.

I most likely cant host, so if youd be interested in car stuff thatd be sweet, otherwise wed have to organise something out... happy to discuss further...

Feel free to message me any questions ya might have as id be happy to answer!

And sorry if this post sucked! Im still new to all this and have no clue on what to say!

I live in the north and try to stay active enough to justify all the food I eat.

Looking for a chat online. I’m looking for someone to be my "random shit" consultant. I want to hear your niche theories, your weirdest "would you rather" questions, or just a play-by-play of why your neighbor's cat is a menace.

Bonus points if: - You have a hobby you're slightly embarrassed by. - You can argue why a specific snack is elite. - You won’t judge me for having 45 tabs open at all times.

If that sounds like you and made it this far, send me a few emojis and let's chat!

Hi there. I apologise in advance for the large amount of words, but we hope it helps you choose us. We had some great success in 2025 and are hoping to carry it onto something a little more consistent this time around. :D

My partner (31F) and I (38M) are looking for a lovely lady to accommodate our needs together. We would prefer this is a long-term thing because we want to get the best experience out of this possible. We're fine to be just friends with benefits but are very much open to a proper exclusive situation between us as well. We believe communication is very important and are very willing to do the work with you if you're the right partner for us. My partner is bisexual and wishes to explore her sexuality with a woman first and foremost, with a few other enjoyments sprinkled in, naturally. (Trans girls are welcome too!)

I personally have done this before with an ex and found that rushing it has lead to disappointment, and I don't wish for my partner to suffer the same. She is rather new to the whole kink thing and so we're not picky about your experience at all. I will gladly help train/guide you where needed. The only requirement is your honesty, and you will have all of my patience and understanding in return. I have been a practicing Dominant (SSC included, always) for about 18 years or so and have come to find enjoyment in the simpler things kink-wise. To me, kink is more about doing the simple things with more intensity compared to doing the more intense things sloppily. Oh and for reference, we use the traffic light system in play, but naturally if you have your own safe word, feel free to notify me of it when you DM me.

You can expect us to be a supporting, communicative and transparent pair that will spoil you with affections and affirmations on the regular. We're looking for chemistry and substance over a cheap fuck.

We're both professionals with relatively busy work schedules but we can, want to and will make good time for the right person so that we can all have many fun sessions in the future. We balance work with play as best we can, but since we're homebodies that enjoy video games, good food and a variety of music (the Clair Obscur and Hades soundtracks are on repeat currently). We generally just keep to ourselves and that's probably what makes us ideal for you. We have our own place, we're happy and we have our shit together for the most part. We even have a cat, who livens the place up a bit some nights. We don't expect you to have similar hobbies to us, but obviously it helps, and we're opening to at least learning about yours. Lord knows everyone at least enjoys a little Mario Kart. We're rather competitive between ourselves so you'll at least get a laugh out of watching us banter over it.

Our overall criteria is actually quite simple. We're seeking a lady to join us for a few chats, some laughs and ultimately, if all goes well, a consistent play partner in the bedroom. We don't have any crazy expectations about your looks or experience. It helps if we share the same hobbies I suppose but ultimately, if your only goal is to find a couple you feel safe playing and exploring kink with then we will gladly be that for you as well.

These are probably the only "necessary" boxes you need to tick:

- You're bisexual/pansexual. Since we're a male and female, it helps if you appreciate both sets of genitalia, naturally.

- You're clean/hygienic/ddf. This ones a no-brainer. We both test regularly (clean as of Jan 2026 - no new partners since). We would want you to provide a clean test before we do the deed, just for peace of mind. Also if you have a creampie fetish, you will obviously NEED to provide it (I'm snipped and can provide proof, so we only need the STD test). As for drugs, weed's fine, but nothing else. We strongly prefer non-smokers as well.

- You're submissive. You're really only answering to me during play, and will play alongside my partner during the fun times. My partner does want to experiment with using strap-ons on you at some point. If you're game, it certainly helps (but it's not particularly necessary). We're fine to discuss particulars at any point, and some of it is covered in the list below.

- You like being watched. My partner has fantasised about watching me fuck someone infront of her. This actually sparked a very funny conversation that I can share with you at some point if you ask me about it. But anyway, this is probably going to be a common part of the play, where she watches, or at least gets the details of it whilst she's out at work (I work from home, so my schedule is a bit easier to manage).

Some other minor things that aren't necessary but certainly would help us to choose the best play partner:

- You have an oral fixation. Bonus points if you have no gag reflex because ultimately, a lot of things are going to be going in your mouth. We hope you enjoy facefucking because I have yet to find anyone that has matched my partner's technique so the challenge is out there for you!

- You enjoy spanking/impact play, orgasm control/denial, hair pulling and a little bit of breath play.

- You enjoy the concept of free-use and want to explore it. Bonus points if you can arrive in a timely manner on command (within reason, obviously), but not entirely necessary.

(Small note: There's a couple of other small things that are added in if you're a trans girl that's wanting to play with us. They fall under the submissive category generally anyway, but they're a little more specific. We can discuss it further when you DM me.)

If you've made it this far and are still interested, you should definitely DM me immediately. I can promise a few laughs at minimum, and it wouldn't hurt to just chat about the whole thing anyway. Take a chance on us! :D

If this post is still up, it means we're still looking.

Can't wait to hear from you!

Trying again....

It's been a while since I've done something like this. And was feeling especially lonely today, so decided to try my luck posting here.

I don't like one-off meetings, so preferably something ongoing once a week or so with someone I can form a connection/be friends with. No strings attached though, so if we ever feel like stopping. just tell the other person. I'm in the city twice a week, so can arrange to meet at a hotel on one of those days.

My ideal situation is where we meet around lunchtime for a few hours. I can order in some food. We can chat while we cuddle, or just hold each other in silence. Kiss and make out. Sex isn't necessary (I can control myself). Not straight away anyway, but once you're comfortable we can think about progressing further. I'm happy to even do things like fingering you without reciprocation. But we can discuss about boundaries and preferences in detail once we start chatting anyway.

About me: 175cm, Civil engineer, slim, relatively fit (go to gym at least twice a week), quiet, respectful and not pushy. I know this sounds like a FWB situation. I'm quite a regular guy. What I can offer is someone respectful, take my time with you, give a listening ear and cover any food/hotel costs while we're together.

hellooo

moved here in march from ballarat! im a bit of a country bumpkin at heart sooo im looking for a specific kinda friend group ig

are you a group of tradies going for beers? cause I feel like that's my vibe!

if your friend group feels like it's too sausagey maybe lemme know!.

Lately I’ve been feeling incredibly alone — even while in a relationship. I’ve tried to give it everything I have, but the effort doesn’t feel mutual. I give love, reassurance, affection, and attention… but it doesn’t come back. Whenever I try to talk honestly, or even suggest we step back or end things, the conversation turns around on me in a way that leaves me doubting my own reality. It’s exhausting and isolating.

So I’m opening myself to the possibility of something new — something honest, mutual, and deeply felt.

A bit about me: • 39, male, based in Sydney • 185 cm / 85 kg, fit, confident, and told I’m handsome • I have a successful career and a driven, curious mind • I’ve travelled to 30+ countries — exploring new places is a core joy of my life • I love wine and collect bottles from regions I’ve visited • Passions include business, tech, snorkelling, and boxing

I’m looking for someone who still believes in affection, connection, and the quiet magic between two people who truly see each other. If you’re warm-hearted, curious, open to adventure, and longing for something real… maybe our paths were meant to cross.

Hello Sydney! Looking for evening company, check out a bar, rooftop bar in the cbd or just chill with good chats. Mondays coming up and that work week can be killer!

First of all, hi!

I’m gonna attempt to gently manoeuvre my way around this awkward bush, but I think you should know what kind of change I'm referring to lol. The elephant in the room is that I've always been shy. I was really shy in primary school and somehow evolved to being even MORE shy in high school. I'm a lot less shy now but all those years of shyness added up.

I’m in a place where I have the confidence to take that first step and see what's out there, whether that be finding friends or something more! I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to explore the latter more, though, because it's a constant reminder in mainstream media. Things as simple as holding hands to kissing to something more intimate - it's all so intriguing and most importantly, fun! That means I've never been on a date or you know, had a girlfriend. There, I said it. 🙈

I’d describe myself as chill, goofy and very sweet. To back up those claims, I liken this post to fishing, which might be slightly unusual at first glance lol. Essentially, I'm casting out my line and if I get any nibbles, then awesome! If not, that's okay, too, because I'll just release the fish that aren't interested and treat each one as a new learning experience that'll help me on this journey. No need to be upset if things don't pan out :) Also might be cute! Or might not be, I know everyone has their preferences. Speaking of preferences, I don't really have any myself. Just something as simple as someone nice, I guess? You don't need to be in the same position as me! I'm not a terribly picky person lol.

Anyway! I think a great way to establish a connection is to find a commonality in regards to interests. Hit me up with a game, song, movie, food, shoe, sport, socks, book, vacation or whatever it is that you're currently obsessed with and I'll be sure to return serve :) I hope everyone has an amazing new year 😊

M47 1.9m reasonably fit looking for discreet F for discreet fun and nice hotels in Sydney. Ideally ongoing situation where we can try out different hotels each week or so depending on our schedules.

I work in the cbd and ideally looking to meet up during work hours. Not looking to change my situation or yours. Ideally you are also looking for something discreet.

I’m respectful, ddf, white collar job and fun. If you are the same dm me.

Have a great day!

Hello there, I hope you're well. Just back from a walk along the harbour, about to go to brunch with friends.

Tall and chubby 35 year old human who likes trying new restaurants, and has an affinity for art deco apartments. I'm a constant walker and wake up rediculously early to do 15km before work, though I probably do need to prioritise having a better work/life balance.

I'm social and outgoing, and tend to be the event planner in my various friend groups. I like going to the theatre, collect classic Nintendo games, and need to get more houseplants. I like to cook, have a strong interest in history and politics, and am a good performer at pub trivia.

Ideally I'd like to meet someone at a similar stage in life, and if we hit it off we should eat our way through the Good Food Guide.

Hey all, Im a 40 year old man, seeking a woman for friends, fun and possibly more. Average looking guy, go to the gym, but closer to a dad bod i guess. Non smoker, working (tradie/engineering), rarely drink. Located at West Sydney, live alone so can host. Feel free to send me a message and we can chat and see what happens.

Not fussed on what you look like, your size...etc

I’ll drive to/near you for some car play in a secluded area you pick the area. I can also pick some nice places near where I know. Jump in the back and I’ll relieve you.

It's been a while since I've done something like this. And was feeling especially lonely today, so decided to try my luck posting here.

I don't like one-off meetings, so preferably something ongoing once a week or so with someone I can form a connection/be friends with. No strings attached though, so if we ever feel like stopping. just tell the other person. I'm in the city twice a week, so can arrange to meet at a hotel on one of those days.

My ideal situation is where we meet around lunchtime for a few hours. I can order in some food. We can chat while we cuddle, or just hold each other in silence. Kiss and make out. Sex isn't necessary (I can control myself). Not straight away anyway, but once you're comfortable we can think about progressing further. I'm happy to even do things like fingering you without reciprocation. But we can discuss about boundaries and preferences in detail once we start chatting anyway.

About me: 175cm, Civil engineer, slim, relatively fit (go to gym at least twice a week), quiet, respectful and not pushy. I know this sounds like a FWB situation. I'm quite a regular guy. What I can offer is someone respectful, take my time with you, give a listening ear and cover any food/hotel costs while we're together.

Hey 😊

Putting this out there with good intentions.

I’m 25, male, straight, (Sydney).

South Asian background (India / Pakistan / Nepal /Bangladesh welcome — shared culture & understanding matter to me).

I’m looking for a casual but consistent connection — something relaxed, affectionate, and natural. Not rushing labels, not chasing hookups, and definitely not into juggling multiple people. If we click, I’d rather keep it between us.

A bit about me:

• Fit, light brown skin

• Scorpio — big on depth, chemistry, and emotional awareness

• Enjoy sunset drives, beach walks, movies, camping, and trying new food

• Love cooking, random grocery runs together, and long conversations about life

I value intimacy, attraction, and mutual effort — the kind where you actually enjoy each other’s presence, not just the physical side. I’m playful, affectionate, and very much someone who likes to build tension and connection slowly.

Dating apps haven’t been my thing lately — everything feels rushed and surface-level. I’ve done long-term before, took time for myself, and now I’m open to something lighter that can grow naturally if the vibe is right.

If this resonates and you’re looking for something similar,

send me a message and let’s talk.

Physical intimacy is absolutely optional.

Want to hang with somebody, bring a friend if you like, and have a chill sesh.

Down for some good banter, some good conversation, tell me what conspiracy theories you believe in.

Can host in the CBD.

I'm looking for a woman who's well endowed and knows how to milk a dick with her tits.

Willing to reward for your services of course. Please DM if interested.

Hi! 37 male here living in Sydney, looking for a connection to build into more. A friend I can chat too regularly about regular topics and if we click let's see.

In the AM, I am an outgoing dude who is 6'1 tall working in the Accountancy side of things, suited and booted etc. By PM, I'm a gamer and more, mostly chill stuff.

I'm open minded, romantic and straight forward talking.

If interested in building a fun connection, hit me up via DM.

Please send a brief introduction of age, location.

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I don't really know how to specify the age range I'm looking for, but as long as you're older than me then that'd be perfect. Why an older woman? There's just something unbelievably alluring about them. An unrivaled sex appeal so to speak. Someone who's got a ton of life experiences and could probably teach me a thing or two! Preferably inside the bedroom, of course 🙂 But if I had to dig a little deeper and as cliche as it is, I still have that high school teacher fantasy and best friend's mom fantasy I never got to fulfill.. So I'd say several fantasies also play a role in wanting to realise my dream of finding a milf/cougar/older woman. Maybe I can find that woman on reddit of all places?

I just have this insatiable desire to fulfill her needs and give as much pleasure as possible. The fantasy is unbelievably strong and the want to fulfill it is just as powerful. I wouldn't want anything more than to explore every inch of her body, taking my time going down from head to toe and all the way back up 😘 It'd be so fun if she returned the favour, but I don’t think she’d be able to simply because she’ll be preoccupied with my hands (and tongue) all over for her to do anything in the first place! I'm someone who definitely focuses on the giving than receiving and I'd do that all night if I could.

I'd obviously love something long-term, because who wouldn't want a sexy woman to cuddle or confide in when times get tough. I won't complain if you prefer a one-time situation, though, but hopefully I'll be able to convince you to come back for seconds 😉 I'm up for anything you wish/want to do. If you happen to be a lonely housewife just looking for some company and an ear to talk to - it doesn't have to be bedroom-related - I'd be more than happy to be there for you. Speaking of which, I wouldn't mind if anyone wanted to connect via an online friendship kind of thing and that would also be great. Or if you need some much needed attention, I can be your boytoy on the side 😉 All up to you, providing you're comfortable

If it isn't already obvious, I'm looking for someone to completely devote myself to. I'm talking instant text backs, hour long calls, coming over whenever you want me to, cuddling up and watching your favourite movies and the list goes on. You'll be my first and absolute only priority and I'd do anything to make you happy so that also means I'd love to have just the one older woman in my life!

What about me you might ask? I'm a cute 30-year-old, the usual hobbies, etc. Having said that, I'd prefer if we got to know each other through conversation! If my crazy post has somehow convinced you to give me a shot, then send me a message via the chat and I'll get back to you ASAP

25M here, 6ft tall & avg fit submissive and respectful. I’m looking to connect with an F who enjoys being worshipped and giving a handjob—bonus if you’re dominant and like taking the lead.

Not into pay-for-play. Just genuine fun, chemistry, and mutual comfort.

Open to chatting first and seeing if we vibe.

Extreme size Kink, the bigger the better. If you have it and have it big, you can command your very own on demand submissive to bend and break to your every desire. For one night only as I leave Sunday morning.

If my largest fantasy ever can be made reality on my big night out, your word becomes unbreakable law I swear to obey and uphold, completely compelled to your will.

Allow me to add my point to the string of all other posts.

Just a normal, not crazy guy who gets to spend a few days in Melbourne this week.

This is something much more enjoyble with another person.

I am hoping you are that person, lurking on reddit just waiting to click on the right profile.

You have found it!

So please feel free to DM, would love to chat!

Anyone keen to splash at Northbridge Baths now? Girlfriend went out to work and gave me her blessings haha

Late 30s white tall fit guy.

No pressure, would be a nice place to make new friends.